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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 03:08

How does one succeed in life?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

What I need from you?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Why do some men like anal sex?

That's it for today.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

How was your JEE Advanced 2024 result?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Islam is definitely a very anti-LGBTQ religion, so why don't liberals ever stage pro-LGBTQ demonstrations at mosques or at the consulates/embassies of Muslim countries?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Does not procrastinate.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

How is bestiality wrong, but killing animals for sport or trophies is considered okay?

Making more friends is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Kquorans, can you please write a story?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Why are there so many girls and not enough boys to follow?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What are the defining characteristics of woke liberals and conservatives in the United States?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

If an abortion doesn’t affect you, why do people make it a big deal?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Can you name a female actress who has had bad timing or luck in her film career?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Procrastinates a lot.

Sometime ago, the Iranian Minister said that a US Navy aircraft carrier would be an easy target for 300 speed boats armed with Katyusha rocket launchers. Is this true?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Summer here, the one who debunks atheism. Isn’t it funny how atheists always say they prefer a “no-nonsense, evidence-based approach” to understanding the world, but when I bring up logical arguments for theism, they suddenly clam up?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Ask yourself:

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Do not set goals—set systems.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.